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Posted on 03-30-15 12:30 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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I am not sure what did you see in this video. Few people specially my female friends saying it's empowering women. I didn't see anything that's empowering or her talking woman equality and I am still not getting what she is trying to say. I am strong believer of equality not only between men and women but also between different caste and races. Can anyone here tell me what she is trying to say? At one point she even said..Have a sex outside of marriage, my choice. Lol.  What I understood from this video is we should not expect from our wives anything. Whether she comes at 4am or 6am in the morning we do not have right to ask them anything because it's their choice. Lol. Ok .  Please tell me what is her intention?. Sorry I am not judging her. I am just trying to educate myself and trying to understand what she is trying to say.


 
Posted on 03-30-15 8:11 AM     [Snapshot: 242]     Reply [Subscribe]
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i agree with sajhamitra. sleeping outside marriage- what kinda empowerment is she talking about?
 
Posted on 03-30-15 9:04 AM     [Snapshot: 330]     Reply [Subscribe]
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मेरो यौनअंग चिलौन्दा मैले जसरि पनि कन्यौना पाउन भन्ने चोइस पो रै छ गाँठे . भोलि पर्सि यस्तै बुडी परि भने त बर्बाद हुन्छ क्यारे
 
Posted on 03-30-15 10:15 AM     [Snapshot: 403]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I think this is the prologue of end of the institution of marriage and sex as a mechanism of reproduction. I am envisaging 100 years from now sex will be no more mechanisms of reproduction for human.

Women will donate egg early on and will be kept frozen, men will donate sperm early on and it too will be kept frozen.

If he /she want their genetic code proliferated they go to hospital pay some money (may be insurance will cover it) and hospital (human production center) will use frozen sperm to fertilize frozen egg in artificial womb.

If men and women don't request human production center from their sperm and egg, government will decide,. based on population need Certain number of egg and sperm will be used to produce human rest will be destroyed when they reach their expiry date.

Institution of marriage will be abolished. Those who get married to make family will be considered "pakhe"
And will be fined heavily.

This way there will be no need of womb in women. Once it is not used for generatins our intelligent "genes" will notice it. Finally there will be a genetic evolution in women. Gene responsible for making womb in women will no longer be active and new evolved women will have no more womb.

Sex will be used as a source pleasure only

Yes, this is the prologue for aforementioned change

 
Posted on 03-30-15 10:36 AM     [Snapshot: 451]     Reply [Subscribe]
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My choice was to weather watch video or not and honestly I didn't finish it.
Choices, freedom, democracy are define in wrong way in developing countries like ours , India ( dont tell me india is developed nation, we are talking about real india not one man who made to Forbes richest or landed on moon )
We dont have water like Any other nation but we want Gay right like America !
Our majority of population is still uneducated and we want naked shiva/ parvati pictures in name of freedom of speech !!
We have no electricity to run machine we want freedom of porn !!!
Our 50% womens spend life in kitchen and we Want sex rights before marriage !
I dont know and I never understand what kind of progress we are looking for without even development of basic need!
 
Posted on 03-30-15 10:39 AM     [Snapshot: 469]     Reply [Subscribe]
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जे पायो त्येइ my choice ।
Whoever says this video is empowering women is stupid. I did not see any of that. This video says i will do whatever the hell i want to do and dont care what u or anyone think or even get hurt / betrayed.
This can be your choice if you choose to do so but Goodluck finding anyone who will keep up with you. Goodluck for the rest of your lonely life..
This is no way a message to empower women.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 11:28 AM     [Snapshot: 528]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Yeah seems like folks here would rather get an obedient pet on a leash. Like pure Chauvinist !!
 
Posted on 03-30-15 11:36 AM     [Snapshot: 564]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Race, Religion, Political opinion, Gender equality - hot topics.
Ladies blame it mother nature. Nature evolved you into caring, loving, sympathetic, empathetic, with uterus, ovary and two mammary glands to raise the miracle of life. Men on the other hand, evolved strong, territorial, protective, ego-boosted son of guns, with penis able to erect anytime. And comes society, many morals and dictations coming from males, sometimes ( Not Always) makes you victim. Women has also manipulated males for centuries, may be even today, Does it comes to news? No. Men can acts like pigs and women can act like bitch, their choice. Refuse to become victim ( both men/ women). We are not equal by nature.Personalities differ with Gender, Period.


 
Posted on 03-30-15 11:46 AM     [Snapshot: 624]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Dipika Paduwa is just trying to get some attention by saying something outrageous.

People who want to sleep with anyone they choose should not get married or they should discuss an open relationship right at the beginning. When you marry someone you are saying you are not going to be having side projects.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 11:56 AM     [Snapshot: 659]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Remembering this fav childhood song. :)

 
Posted on 03-30-15 12:17 PM     [Snapshot: 713]     Reply [Subscribe]
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The message is not about whether her choice is right - the message is about her right to choice (choose).
And I agree, much like her choice to sleep outside of her marriage, the society has the choice to call that person a whore. It seems she has mixed some of her choice with her rights, much like the responses to this video. Choosing not to go out with somebody is a choice governed by your rights, raping the person might be a choice- certainly not a right.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 12:24 PM     [Snapshot: 701]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Well, If Deepika wants to have sex outside of marriage, she also needs to make sure that her husband is a Yogi who has transcended this world. Otherwise, sex is a big thing for ordinary men.

Total freedom is not possible for humans in this planet. Sun has freedom not to glow, but it is doing its Dharma. Prithvi has freedom not to rotate around Sun like crazy, but it is doing its Dharma. Stomach can refuse to digest all that disgusting looking chewed food, but it is doing its Dharma. We as a human being must not forget that this world is ordered by Niyati, and if you try to violate this Niyati, the Niyati will react back to you making your life miserable.

So, absolute freedom will create a chaotic state in a relative world. We must do our Dharma.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 12:31 PM     [Snapshot: 745]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Bill Clinton needs to make a video too. ( choice to get dick sucked at work bench) LOL
 
Posted on 03-30-15 2:00 PM     [Snapshot: 890]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Here is a thought, and I am asking seriously: why would the choice not apply to sex-workers and their clients? Why is a woman (or a man) who willingly wants to make money by providing sex services not allowed to do so legally? I am not talking about intimidation, human trafficking etc. If we have two consenting adults, and one of them wants to be paid for the act, and the other is willing to do so, why is that choice between the two illegal?
 
Posted on 03-30-15 2:10 PM     [Snapshot: 911]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Cardinal, there are many "illegal" things that don't make sense logically. If paid sex is illegal, then why are pornographic movies allowed? The only difference between the two is presence of a camera.
Wonder why you brought this topic though? Did she say anything about it?
 
Posted on 03-30-15 2:38 PM     [Snapshot: 929]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Cardinal's comment caught my attention. I don't think any rational government, and for that matter any rational leader/lawmakers, in this world would make buying and selling sex illegal if they are free to make choice. The biggest thing is that there is huge lack of resources everywhere to restrict illegal activities that happen under the disguise or on the background of sex trade. You said 'no intimidation, no trafficking' etc, but there are other things like 'forceful drug addiction and then forceful sex trade- especially common in many developed countries, using under age people, inability to make right decision due to lack of education etc'- which are next to impossible to police. Ideally, I am a big supporter of making this thing legal, but given the circumstances now, I don't think anyone can make a strong point for it.

BTW, I was watching a 'sajha sawal clip' where adhibakta Sapana Malla was saying 'even the supreme court of Nepal don't consider this trade as illegal'. So, in Nepal's context, police and local administration have lots of discretion about it. And, usually they don't interfere unless a third party complain to police saying "these hotelwalas are creating social vice by allowing such and such activities". And, when they take the case to CDO, these cases are not strong at all.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 3:15 PM     [Snapshot: 984]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Where all the values, relationship, commitment have gone in this video. I know it's her choice to do whatever she want but how about keeping the values to the relationship, being committed, respecting each other company . I am telling in the support of both men and women. Having sex even after marriage is not a choice, it's the betrayal of commitment to the relationship, walking naked means where has the civilization gone what is the meaning of being civilized. This can be true in the show business to make money nowadays but not in the real world and should not be. Even out here in america if two people are in a relationship commitment and honesty plays a role. If one between two of them break that they leave each other. So being committed, respect each other, being civilized are the choices we should make not the other way around.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 4:53 PM     [Snapshot: 1084]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@ JhilkeKancho...... Being civilized doesn't necessarily means you have to wear clothes. For example, Naga Babas and many Yogis in Nepal and India do not wear clothes and we cannot consider them as uncivilized. In America as well, there are naturalist who do not want to wear clothes. Eating with spoon, wearing clothes, driving car etc. are not the real means to show whether a society is civilized or not. The real test of a civilized nation is Love and Peace. Are we kind to people, are we kind to animals (this includes eating vegetarian food), are we kind to reptiles, are we kind to insects etc.
A non-vegetarian society is a barbarian society and cannot be considered civilized.
 
Posted on 03-30-15 4:59 PM     [Snapshot: 1090]     Reply [Subscribe]
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sojoketo is into black and that's my CHOICE..
sajhasexy is into divorceyguy and that's his CHOICE
Nas(ey) is into priyanka and that's his/her CHOICE
Priyanka ain't care who the heck is Nas(ey) and that's her CHOICE

others...coming....
aile jhatta meeting ma gayera auchu
 
Posted on 03-30-15 6:09 PM     [Snapshot: 1166]     Reply [Subscribe]
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yesto MY CHOICE bhanney syausi kt ko khoji ma chu ma ta....
 



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