My relatives need a nanny ( female). Willing to sponsor visa if you are from Nepal.

Indisguise - (Will it be fine for them to seek nanny in this scenario - miss nails?:p)

yes i guess but also no because if they can't take care of the baby then after the accident and when they accept that it was an accident then it would have been wise for them to make an abortion ni! :) :) Don't you think so Indisguise?

nails, you r fuking stupid. I dont need your stupid narrow minded comment. All i said was they needed a nanny. What if they have to work. There is something called 'work' and 'obligation' in this world, not like all the free time you guys have, coming here to post crude comments.

openujs- that's my point ke!! if they make the effort to have kids then they should be able to make some kind of schedule where they give time to their baby as well rather than just work and work and work ke!!!! and plus what the hell is a nanny gonna do?? it's not narrow minded at all ke, actually it's more like - why don't you look after your own kid rather than work?? and if there just is no way around it then they should have thught of this before than having the kid and making the kid's life a pain in the ass. The kid is looking for it's mother's company ke not some nanny! ufffffffff!!! you're narrow minded can't you even think about it for a second from my point of view anyways they've done the mistake but hope you don't do the same thing! :) :)

Openujs, you are right "There is something called 'work' and 'obligation' in this world."
What about the obligation to take care of the baby? Doesn't baby come before work? I guess not, huh?

Lfc123,
My bad. You got me there! "Pin"+ point me alright, but do not poke me as I have a very tender heart. :p

Also, I already have a "hole in my soul." :)
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Nails,
Maybe they were pro-life. Knoe wot m’sayin?

Not everyone has courage to end a life or to be precise a human life in progress. Besides there is a thing called "beautiful accident." I am for babies - loads of it at that.:) So personally, I can not see "myself" being a part of an abortion. That said - I am a
pro-choice person.

What they should've, could've with their baby and their life in general is too personal for us to pass a judgment on. If they were surviving on my tax money, and if this was their 13th child, I might have a serious reservation.

Else, I am all for chubby, cute gol-matol, pakkam pukum bhakkam bhukum bundle of joy :)
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La la openujs, narisaunus. Hope you will find the nanny soon. :)

IndisGuise:)

hurray - of course the baby comes before work ni!!! is a baby's life less important than making money so the parents can eat more and waste their energy on making another baby so they ruin another baby's life??? uffffffffff!

Indis- even if you are pro life, you would be killing the baby alive when you do this but if you get an abortion then the baby won't even know about it ke! don't you think??? what would be better - killing the baby alive or killing the baby when you know that it doesn't even know what's happening????

Nails fuchi, you sweet thing, please read his comment again. In all probability, he is merely concuring with you. :)

no he's not indis, hmm... if it is a he. he said - nails, you r fuking stupid. I dont need your stupid narrow minded comment.

Hey nails,

Though your arguments seem to be valid, there are some people in this world for whom money(work) and obligation come before their own kids. Let them live their life their own way. Good luck for the nanny search.

I meant "hurray" nails. He was concurring with you. Was not talking about openujs.
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Okay, let's get to the end of it.

Baby's life is of course of paramount importance. In fact, I believe parents care about their babies more than they do of themselves - in general.

(Henceforth, my statement shall reflect my general assertion)

They want to "provide" the best they can for their kids. Best clothing, shelter, food, education and more. Love and care indeed are the key ingredients. But we do not live in the free world. Everything has a price. So the parents working to give the best they can possibly muster for their kids have to pay the price of being away from them for 8 hours a week for 5 days a week or so.

Does that mean that parents do not love their kids? That they do not care for their children? Or are they less concerned than those who are with their children 24/7?

Of course not!

People work for self fulfillment, a character a child can learn from their parents, but more importantly they work to make a living. To pay bills - to provide - to survive. And for a parent, IMO, to provide the best they possibly can for their - hold your breath -"children". If the parents completely ignore the child, merely produce it and go on with their life; work in general - then and only then, your suggestion absolutely makes sense.

They are just trying to make the best living for their family. They work for their kids, among others. And no, it is not akin to "bombing for peace."

If only we lived in the "free" world.

Hope this settles it.

IndisGuise:)

P.S: Another factor kicking in is - who is to stop working? Both? No?

Okay father? Or mother? What about their choice? Are you not a pro-choice person? What with you supporting a "choice" - an option of aborting, which they generally also refer to as " a woman's right to choose."

You tell me which boat you stand on? Can't be both now, can it?:p

And also darling, would you pay their bills? A child needs nutrition sweetie.And last i heard, raising a child was not cheap;) (Now, don't ask me if it was not cheap, why they chose to have a baby. That's their CHOICE. :p)

Geezzzz problem nabhako thau ma ni problem banauni manche haru hehe......

hmmm...nails bhatizi always caught in some controversy... guys be nice to her :-)

NAILS....You guys are so lame. What do you mean mistake? they dont want nanny to take care of the kid 24/7, may be few hours a day when she is at work. Life is about flexibility, having options...Not like "Oh you have a baby now spend every second with the baby"... plus what are you doing posting your comment in irrelevant topic. I dont NEED your fuking discussion, this topic is only for those who are interested working as a nanny...period. dont waste your time. do something constructive...you worthless people.

Nails act as if raising child is easy...............and this is USA not like Nepal where your parents will take care of the baby, until and unless your husband's job is perfect you can stay in leave otherwise there are lots of bills. who is gonna pay the bills. ..so what's the day care and nanny for? those are for the people who needs to work...of course all parents love baby...all people go through this situation.....and lets not point out who looks for nanny....

PLUS if you guys want to discuss about ABORTION, pro-life, BABY and WORK, open new topic and discuss as much as you want. This thread is not for discussion.

La la buje Openjus.

It is a public forum, but i would have respected your intention of targeting the prospective candidates only, had you mention it beforehand.

But the discussion did help bring the thread up and hence increased the possibility to viwed by prospective candidate, which otherwise would have gone in the depth of sajha graveyard long ago. Just trying to make you take note of the bright side.

Anyways, I'll try to leave the thread alone, and hope that we would not be subjected to phrases such as "you worthles people" , "you guys are lame" , "fcuk" and so on.

La ta good luck.

IndisGuise:)

Indisguise - :) :)

openujs - i know tons of people that would want to be a nanny! hmm... but i am not going to help you anymore cause of what you said to me and i don't think anyonelse will help you either cause you're mean! :( :(
So what if we have a discussion here - maybe in discussions someone might think of someone they know who might be able to help you!
and you can post your dirty language as much as you want ke casue that will only make you look bad not us! ;) (wink,wink) :) :)

and then you'll be converting the thread from "nanny" to "swear words" :) :)

damn you are lame nails. WTF is wrong with ya?
Yes the the biggest obligation is to take care of your baby that's why you have to work to feed them. One could be a single parent or just can't afford the costly day cares. Maybe they thought it would rather be cheaper to bring a nanny from nepal. what's wrong with that. Nobody needs your help, i think its u who need help. And yes you're narrow minded girl, hope you never have a kid. but if you do, you'll understand.Or maybe not.

If one's a single parent and not financially stable to raise a kid, then why bring a new life in this world, right?
People should learn to take responsibility for their actions, or act wisely.