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LifeisaHighway
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Posted on 12-27-09 10:04
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MY COUSIN RECENTLY TOLD ME SHE LOVES ME AND SHE WANTS TO MARRY ME AND BE WITH ME. I HAVE BEEN DYING TO HEAR THAT WORD FOR THE LAST FEW YEARS. . we both been here in US for like 2 years now and we live together. I ALWAYS LIKED HER AND I HAD A PREETY GOOD SENSE THAT SHE LIKES ME TOO. BUT THE PROBLEM HERE IS THAT I WANT TO LET OUR FAMILY KNOW ABOUT OUR RELATION BUT SHE DOESNOT WANNA DO THAT. HELP ME GUYS.I DONT WANT TO LEAVE HER AND I KNOW SHE DOESNOT WANT TO DO THAT EITHER.
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Nikesh282
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Posted on 12-28-09 2:27
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Wanna correct on "Fusre Jogi": Adam and Eve weren't created as brother and sisters. It is a wrong interepretation. Read the book of Genesis, if you can. Eve was formed later from Adam's body part that is one of Adam's ribs and she was given to him in the same respect so he (Adam) can find his soulmate in her (Gen. 3:20). As far as physical relationship of their offspring: that was a special circumstance that had to happen, because there was no other choices to continue the generation of mankind. God let it happened because of that. On the other hand, God had already kicked Adam and Eve out of Garden of Eden because of thier sin (disobey). So that makes perfect sense why Adam's offsprings messed each other.
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Posted on 12-28-09 2:29
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Oh LifeisaHighway !
Forget about religion. It is man made.
But तैले यो कुरा साँचै भन्दैछस कि अरुको कुरा बुज्न लेख्दैछस ?
And did you talk to rehab Counselor? It would help if you did.
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Posted on 12-28-09 7:15
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WOW!
You know who you stand up with now? You've got the mindset of Thomas jefferson, Einstein, Charles darwin and many more famous people who married their cousin.
Ask me - if you can face the society do it. Most likely you cant, so dont!
Also remember, its not like you loved each other and started living together. But you lived together, and started loving each other's company. So make an immediate move and stay separate and dont let it bother any of your future directions in your life.
Tough, but both of you invited it!
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Posted on 12-28-09 7:31
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Legal and social problems aside, there is a chance of inbreeding which could result in genetic defects in the offsprings. According to wikipedia:
Inbreeding may result in a far higher phenotypic expression of deleterious recessive genes within a population than would normally be expected.[1] As a result, first-generation inbred individuals are more likely to show physical and health defects, including: Natural selection works to remove individuals who acquire the above types of traits from the gene pool. Therefore, many more individuals in the first generation of inbreeding will never live to reproduce. Over time, with isolation such as a population bottleneck caused by purposeful (assortative) breeding or natural environmental stresses, the deleterious inherited traits are culled.
FURTHERMORE ..... The most famous example of a genetic disorder aggravated by royal family intermarriage was the House of Habsburg, which inmarried particularly often. Famous in this case is the Habsburger (Unter) Lippe (Habsburg jaw/Habsburg lip/"Austrian lip"), typical for many Habsburg relatives over a period of six centuries.[19] The condition progressed through the generations to the point that the last of the Spanish Habsburgs, Charles II of Spain, could not properly chew his food.[20] (See mandibular prognathism.) Besides the jaw deformity, Charles II also had a huge number of other genetic physical, intellectual, sexual, and emotional problems. It is speculated that the simultaneous occurrence in Charles II of two different genetic disorders: combined pituitary hormone deficiency and distal renal tubular acidosis could explain most of the complex clinical profile of this king, including his impotence/infertility which in last instance led to the extinction of the dynasty.[21] The most famous genetic disease that circulated among European royalty was hemophilia. Because the progenitor, Queen Victoria, was in a first cousin marriage, it is often mistakenly believed that the cause was consanguinity. However, this disease is not aggravated by cousin marriages.
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Posted on 12-28-09 10:30
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bheja nai raichas! talai sansaar ma aaru kunai kt bhetiyea mama ko chori hernu parne! kulangaar! give her to me! IS SHE HOT THOUGH?
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Posted on 12-28-09 10:58
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"बिनास काले बिपरीत बुद्धि" how could you even think about your own sister! घरमा बाबु आमा चै छोरा अमेरिका मा छ, बुड़ेश काल मा सुख दिन्छ भनेर बसेका होलान , छोरा चै, संसार मा कोही कोही केटी नभाको जस्तो गरेर.......................
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Morange
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Posted on 12-29-09 2:16
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In muslim 1st cousin is the 1st choice(Hak Lagne) same way in Nepal Thakuris also marry their cousins for example King Birendra,Gyanendra,Dhirendra,Queen Aishwarya,Komal and Prechhya they all were Juddha Sumsher Grand Childrens. In Bahun Kathmandu's ex Deputy Mayor Mrs Kanchan Mala Chalise D/O Mr Ranjan Raj Khanal was married to her Bhanij Daju(Ranjan Raj's Bhanja) Mr Bidyut Raj Chalise so you will not be 1st couple if you marry her.
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Posted on 12-29-09 10:39
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Yeah go ahead and marry her but make sure you put a clause in yer prenup which will say you won't have to pay her dakshina money for Bhai Tika!!
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Posted on 12-29-09 11:01
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lifeisahighway, are u really going to read all this thread and decide what to do ? If you are, here is piece of my brain too. In our culture, mama ra aama ko chori are same. So there is noway you could actually marry her. There are other culture that indulge is such thing, but it would not be acceptable in general. It will create a havoc in the family. People will try to hide from you. Your kid will have a problem with other kids or vice versa. Genetically as well, this practice is not recomended. The likely wood of the kid having genetic problem much higher in offspring produced by incest than diverted couple. Listen to people, because u asked. Get away from her. Go far from her, you will be fine. Find someone else.
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Morange
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Posted on 12-29-09 11:02
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Nikesh282 what's your opinion about incest in the Bible?
TOP 6 INCESTOUS RELATIONSHIPS IN THE BIBLE
Religious scholars say that God suspended the laws of incest in the early days of man in order to ensure that man spread on the earth. In the words of the commentators of the Douay Rheims Bible: “God [dispensed] with such marriages in the beginning of the world, as mankind could not otherwise be propagated.” Despite that, these tales are not all simply matters of procreation – particularly item 1. So, here is a list of 6 of the more questionable relationships in the Bible.
And Cain went out from the face of the Lord, and dwelt as a fugitive on the earth, at the east side of Eden. And Cain knew his wife, and she conceived, and brought forth Henoch: and he built a city, and called the name thereof by the name of his son Henoch. [Genesis 4:16-17]
Cain was the first born son of Adam and Eve, and Abel was the second. In Genesis 4 we read how Cain kills his brother and is sent east of Eden where he marries a woman and “lays” with her. Because Adam and Eve were the first humans – from whom all people come – Cain’s wife was his sister – and, consequently, all of the early Biblical relationships were incestuous (with the exception of Adam and Eve). Cain, incidentally, was the guy that caused so much trouble for the Mormon’s who believed that the cursed “Mark of Cain” meant black skin, leading them to forbid blacks from entering the Mormon priesthood (God “revealed” that they were allowed to let black skinned people in to the priesthood in 1978). You can read more about that blunder here. In the image above we see Cain killing his brother Abel.
Howbeit, otherwise also she is truly my sister, the daughter of my father, and not the daughter of my mother, and I took her to wife. And after God brought me out of my father’s house, I said to her: Thou shalt do me this kindness: In every place, to which we shall come, thou shalt say that I am thy brother. [Genesis 20:12-13]
Abraham married his half sister Sara in Ur. The King of Gerara took her from Abraham and God sent him a dream to tell him that he would be destroyed for taking a woman who already had a husband (God approved of the marriage between the brother and sister). The King returned Sara to Abraham and they remained together as a couple until she died at the age of 127. Incidentally, Abraham died 38 years later at the ripe old age of 175.
And Thare lived seventy years, and begot Abram, and Nachor, and Aran. And these are the generations of Thare: Thare begot Abram, Nachor, and Aran. And Aran begot Lot. And Aran died before Thare his father, in the land of his nativity in Ur of the Chaldees. And Abram and Nachor married wives: the name of Abram’s wife was Sarai: and the name of Nachor’s wife, Melcha, the daughter of Aran, father of Melcha, and father of Jescha. [Genesis 11:26-29]
This is one of those complex “generations” quotes that are found throughout the early stages of the Bible, but if you pay close attention you can see that Nachor (Abraham’s brother) married Melcha (his niece). It is phrases like those above which make it so difficult to read the Bible cover to cover. Frankly, these parts of the Bible make Proust’s “In Remembrance of Things Past” read like a Doctor Seuss book!
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Morange
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Posted on 12-29-09 11:08
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Cont.........incestous Relationship in the Bible 3 Lot and his Daughters And the elder said to the younger Our father is old, and there is no man left on the earth, to come in unto us after the manner of the whole earth. Come, let us make him drunk with wine, and let us lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father. And they made their father drink wine that night: and the elder went in and lay with her father: but he perceived not neither when his daughter lay down, nor when she rose up. And the next day the elder said to the younger: Behold I lay last night with my father, let us make him drink wine also to night, and thou shalt lie with him, that we may save seed of our father. They made their father drink wine that night also, and the younger daughter went in, and lay with him: and neither then did he perceive when she lay down, nor when she rose up. So the two daughters of Lot were with child by their father. [Genesis 19:31-36] It doesn’t really get much more blatant than that. The two daughters had sex with their father, Lot, in order to preserve his family line. Incidentally, this all happened shortly after they had fled from Soddom and Gomorrah which was destroyed by God for its immorality – ironic?. After the events described above, Lot had no memory of it (maybe it was the liquor) and nine months later the daughters gave birth to two sons, Moab (father of the Moabites), and Ammon (father of the Ammonites). The sons of Merari: Moholi and Musi. These are the kindreds of Levi by their families. 20 And Amram took to wife Jochabed his aunt by the father’s side: and she bore him Aaron and Moses. And the years of Amram’s life were a hundred and thirty-seven. [Exodus 6:19-20] This is the family history of Moses – the guy who lead the Jews out of Egypt and later was given the ten commandments (which were not actually 10 commandments – more on that here). Jochabed was Moses’ Great-aunty Mom. And it came to pass after this, that Amnon the son of David loved the sister of Absalom the son of David, who was very beautiful, and her name was Thamar. And he was exceedingly fond of her, so that he fell sick for the love of her: for as she was a virgin, he thought it hard to do any thing dishonestly with her. [II Kings 13:1-2 ] And Thamar came to the house of Amnon her brother: but he was laid down: and she took meal and tempered it: and dissolving it in his sight she made little messes. And taking what she had boiled, she poured it out, and set it before him, but he would not eat: and Amnon said: Put out all persons from me. And when they had put all persons out, Amnon said to Thamar: Bring the mess into the chamber, that I may eat at thy hand. And when she had presented him the meat, he took hold of her, and said: Come lie with me, my sister. She answered him: Do not so, my brother, do not force me: for no such thing must be done in Israel. Do not thou this folly. [II Kings 13:8-12] But he would not hearken to her prayers, but being stronger overpowered her and lay with her. [II Kings 13:14] Our final item is not just a case of incest – it is a case of incestuous rape! Amnon fell in love with his sister, Thomar, and was counseled by a crafty man to trick her in to having sex with him. He followed the bad advice and when Thomar tried to defend herself, he raped her. At least justice was ultimately done as Thomar’s other brother, Absalom, killed Amnon two years later in vengeance. Let that be a lesson to us all!
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Posted on 12-29-09 11:19
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what is all this biblical bull shit in this thread?
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Posted on 12-29-09 3:24
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Posted on 12-29-09 5:28
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Will be Interesting to see the thread originator's response? Where is He?!!
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Posted on 12-30-09 5:30
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LifeisaHighway
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Posted on 12-31-09 8:24
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I want to take some of my time and thank everyone for their comments.Thanks again for taking ur most valuable time and posting ur likes dislikes about the relation i am having. But as saying of rite now I still dont have a clear idea what should i do. For now i am not leaving her. And we will try to hang onto our relation until there is no way out. we are going to keep it up to urself and hang onto it before someone finds out. that meaning i dont want to hurt any family members of ours. want to give a shout out to tamanglakola who posted the godfather clip from youtube. thanks that is what i am going through.
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Posted on 12-31-09 9:02
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You can't have both chi chi and papa in this case. it's either you leave your cousin or leave your family. If you do decide to be together and have kids can you name your son Wolverine and daughter Storm?
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Posted on 12-31-09 9:08
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Waihyaat, love sove kei haina yo, daju bahini sangai US aaunuko pida ho yo, dui jana sangai basna thale, ketole aru keti payena so aafnai bahinisanga ramauna thalyo ketile aru ketasanga hidna sakina as feri daile kei bhanla ki bhanera, yeso garda gardai ketole kahilei arko keti payena, ketile arko keta paina so life bitdai gayo, dui daju bahini ghumna thale ramna thale as a close fren, movie herna gaye, club gaye, hang out garna thale, twat khana thale, porn herna thale, teso garda gardai kiss siss bhayo, apthero lagyo ek dui din ek arkalai herna lajako jasto garera base, third din bata feri hangout garna thale feri suru huna thalyo kiss siss tara yespali bhane rokiyena long gayo and then so called lovelogy suru bhayo. haha gharbata koi chhori bidesh jandai chha bhane here ko sanga basli, kasari basli bhanne chinta hunchha sabbhanda, usko mamako chhori dai sangai jana pai bhanera makkha pareka thiye hola uta mamagharma, hera bidambana, whom to trust.
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Posted on 12-31-09 12:37
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Stop .. dont do it .. this is not love .. this will be a huge mess later ... just stop it .. You will regret later ..
this is not going to work ... change your college .. leave that place ..
One thing I can bet here : You must be in your early 20s ..or less .. tell this relationship to one of your close friend .. and see the reaction .. or think your sister is making love with your kaka ko chora ..
To make everything short !! STOP .. dont go any further !!
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Posted on 12-31-09 12:46
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Ask your sister to read this thread as well.... after all it's not your decision only.
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