To begin with "this happened to a friend of mine" is totally clichéd but that's what is happening. So this is how it goes. A guy and a girl love each other very much or so they say. They can't be together because well one's a bahun and the other a chettri. So the guy decides to break up with the girl after 5 years of practically living as a husband and wife ( and I don't mean the physical relationship) more of a emotional attachment thing. Anyhow, the girl (obviously very emotional and a bit dramatic) ends up crying buckets of tears and threatening to die and all. The guy doesn't seem to mind too much, tells the girl to do what she wants, it isn't his fault, he says its 'bhagya: bhagya ma lekhekai chaina'. Me being the friend, I told her to get a life, move on, hearts are broken per second but she doesn't seem to be able to grasp the situation. I'm really scared for her since we aren't in the same part of the country. She says she loves him to death and blah blah blah...what do I tell her? I haven't played a counselor much so what should I tell her?

omg so the relation broke apart cause they were bahun and chetri, not both were of same ethnic background digusting man in love there is no race or color. but she should move on u know, life is like a journey u find somebody one day and then leave that person in next destination and find another one i guess

can you try telling her that the guy is worthless. is this someone who she thinks she would be willing to spend her whole life - someone who will leave her just because she's from a different caste? someone who doesn't care about what she does to herself.. 

Drink the juice and throw the bottle, this is what the guy thinks. Caste is just a mere reason. After staying together for five years and using the girl the guy is no more interested in the girl. He looks outside and find other girls prettier than her. Five years is a great deal of time. Good guys don't let the relationships go that long, they marry sooner than that. Bahun and chhetri is not much differentiated to marry in our society. It would make some sense if it was bahun with kaami, sunar, gurung, magar or even newar. Still if they are abroad and standing on self foot family accepts. If the guy leaves the girl, he can never b happy. He can not love nobody more than he loved his first girl. I would say avagi keta. Kasto kaatar, luimute, hutiyara rahechha yar.

Its a modern world now. Wake up!! stayed for 5 yrs and there is this conflicting part now?? SOB..doesn't deserve the gal and doesn't know how to treat them right. Wait a minute..he is coward, cheap bastard. Let him go its the best option, If one goes out, other comes in.
Goodluck !!

@furke: juice khayera bottle nafalera k mandir ma lyayera rakhnu ta...kasta logic hun yaar manche ka

"It would make some sense if it was bahun with kaami, sunar, gurung, magar or even newar."

Furke there's no difference between them and you. So stop trying to rationalize.

juice khayera bottal falnu irresponsible kaam ho. bottal lai thik thau ma rakhnu pracha - jasto ki gilas ko bottal ho bhane recycling ma halnu parcha. 

yeah freaking furke all races are equal, there ain't no any race higher than other ones made by some  people. if i fall in love with podi or damini or kamaini i will marry her. sorry i even hate to use these freaking words that was made by some people. .

hearts are broken per second , child are born every micromilisecond hehe

Get a life ,

8847, 2 people die every second (http://www.wholesomewords.org/missions/greatc.html#birdatrate 2009 estimate) .. teso bhane afno kohi maryo bhane ni esari fact jasto herne ho ta?