help. i am in a sticky position. i think i fell in love for the first time after many years of gap which i can hardly recall at all.

but the problem is that she/he is married. and i can tell that she/he also likes me.

is it alright for me to come in between them and break their marriage? we do spoke at each other and we meet once every week. she/he even took me to her/his house that day. we share so many common things. and the point is we two click instaneously and go on forever.

what should i do?

 

First try having sex with her..

You shud always have a test drive before you buy a car.

Sajhakohero,

I don't really like to be rude in case of personal matter, in sajha.But I guess this time I can't help. How could you even think of having that crazy bitch in your life ? When she was not good to her husband, how could you expect her to be good to you some years later ? or after few months or so!

I guess the girl's husband must be working hard for his family and for her, while his wife is having private time with another sick guy (sajhakohero) in his own house. Just get into reality...both of you shits !

I am just telling this because I can't imagine the poor husbands situation..No matter even if he had the fault..unless they are divorced..dont dare to be in between them..you have no right to do that !

Please try to respect others privacy and family matter, and don't look for the right opportunity to break their family !

Sampada

 

Dear Sampada,

before accusing girl you should try to knw wat the situation is...may the husband is not good either..well they have a problem...you see guy is igrnoring the girl thats why girl is being able to bring stranger in the hous.... thats the reason girl is comfortable with sajhakohero ....if girl was a crazy bitch tthen she could have had sex with sajahkohero and never bothered to leave her husband..but i really feel sorry for those chaps..i hope her husband dnt have a small penis.... If sajha ko hero is real hero then he should not worry abt anything and free her frm her husband... like bush gave freedom to iraqi ppl......

Haha,

That sounds funny, as I said even if her husband was not good to her.. sajhakohero should only enter in her life once they are divorced.I meantioned about that part too.

 Please read carefully what he wrote and what I wrote in my previous posting before comenting.

Sampada

common guys! common dahlings! you could at least give me a better advice. Don't be like boring old people. You all sounds like that...........old grandpa, old man old woman giving advice to their young ones. This is the new Generation GOT it! I though you can come out with better advice so i decided to pour it here.

to : sanju.baba go and learn to respect Others! but still i won't blame you!

to: ratobhaley i told you before in my other threads that i do not want to disclose my SEX! it's not important.

to: sYaKuuRiolAKU_nchImb dahling this is not a gay thread.

to: jptsamachar i will not even think about such "thing" dahling! i can wait until she/he is ready and wants to go to next level.

to: sampada and others i know she/he is married but now my welfare is at stake. My heart is Pumping so hard even now while i thought about her/him. And  whenever i meet her/him i feel so happy. This never had happen to me................and now i feel that i have something to push for!

And yes i don't want to break their family apart but i be breaking my own heart then!! why so perplex? why so confusing? why so complicated? My exams are just around the corner...................but i can't FOCUS now because of her/him. 

What to do?  She/he also phoned me once a day cauz i like listening to her/him.

any EXPERT to give advice?

 

hey first confirm who it is he or she

 

Dear Miss Sajha 2007;

Hajur, its very common to hear energetic girl and ramrii like you attract to a man that exemplifying  stable looks, steady life,prime life,"purusha"/husbandary himself  esteem  manners that makes  or seems to yourself feels alright or safe to be friend/love for. Enumerated to all the sense mention ~ all that glittery and accountable matters that which compatible to you or him vice versa -  is for my say is subordinate essence of love and the inspire towards the relationship is temporal....

The prospect of you going share/against  with Her own husband love, being good friend to you too , and as supporting relative to Her as you mention that you was invited to their home is definitely dragged you to a daunting feelings as forth to hinder/and love  Him at total is a big dilemma to your athma, but then  to be able yourself to perform your duty as expected to your confidance principle, it is the law and karma which is law is still a Law cause and effect expounded that the married status is a divine and phalic symbol in their relationship.Ignorance of this stigma knots rerecklessly will depicted suffering in further life even it is potray compassioning to you.

Invoking the so called sharing basis terms, as well to fullfill the insist on/carry on the  relationship that eventually lead  the unllying principle of true love may be the becoming of  realization knots/that  expect for- may last  as unbind love.......to once calling ,up to you...( prognastication for one`s man champion upon your destine love shall begin from  out of many this kind periphery love heroes ....)

hey it's getting more complex now......................

so far we are very close friend. is it possible and right to go even further.

 

NO, LEAVE HER and her family ALONE, omg, what if you were that HUSBAND, THAT'S SO mean. get your own wife and family!
and NO YOUR NOT IN LOVE !!!!

If he's a bastard, leave him. If he's gentle enough, you neednt break his not-so-good relationship. He'll work it out and let you know. If you're a bitch, you leave him and dont spoil his life. If you're genuine and he's genuine too and if there are high chances of divorce, work it out together.

Anyway, stop bitching about it unless you really have a valid reason to do so. "And you coming in between them and breaking the marriage" is just so NOT one. Not that i am against either of you being married, but this could be an insult into people who have had good relationships after a change in partner, of course after extreme incompatibility. Hope i got it clear here.

sajha ko hero

did u asked for any suggestions before u started dating him/her? then why now?

it seems that u r much inspired by sharukh movies ,or may be Imraan Hasmi, (more lust)

i would suggest u to take the decision on your own, coz its u who s gonna bear the consequences, and dont make a fun of u and the one whom u love here,

but i would suggest u guys to be together, dont let the third person suffer coz of your extra marital affairs,let him/her know beforehand so that he can also think about his.her future, and do it before its too late, before he/she gets children, it would be worst then,

and be careful, is she/he can leave his/her spouse, so how come u r sure that it wont happen again? may be with u?

be careful,

its your call,

chyantu

hey asian shorty (aznshawty)

long time ........

how have u been? 

feels good to have u back though 

aww me too :) thanks <3

Me thinks you should buy yourself a decent pair of running shoes, and get out of their before the husband catches you.

शेक्सपीयरको ओथेलोमा डेज्डीमोनाका पिताले ओथेलोलाई यसो भन्छन - "She deceived her father / May she thee."

त्यसैले मित्र, जसले तपाइँका लागि आफ्नो बिहे गरेको जीवनसाथीलाई धोका दिन सक्छ उसले पछि तपाइँलाई पनि धोका नदेला भन्न सकिन्छ त ?

Now, to those of you who are hell bent on going for a married man or married woman: why do you guys want to do this and why do you flaunt your "conquests" in sajha postings.

No offence intended but this is what I think. I think that by convincing one half of a married couple to cheat on the other spouse and come with you, you feel that you have proven yourself to be better than the other guy/woman. And that accomplishment would not be complete until you flaunt your "conquest" in front of other people.

Right?

Absolutely right.

dont worry you will be on her husbands spot after sometime....

If you are  male you are a horny fu** and if your are  female you are a kept.....pary to god his/her spouse never finds it out.....coz if you live in southern state they can sue you.....and run away save your life coz its the #1 cause for murder.....god bless you......but god also runs away from you kinda immoral ppl.

Okay, so she likes you!? So what? What's in liking? Liking is not loving! And you're already so excited dreaming of getting into his/her married life!
So first find out if he/she loves you. And see, you can guess at it, you can approximate it, but in the end if you want the correct answer, you have to ask! So go to him/her and ask "Do you love me?... Would you ruin your married life for me?". Either he/she will hit you with a frying pan and stuff dirty socks into your mouth or he/she will hold you tightly. If you're hit with a frying pan, you should go to a hospital and also promise yourself that you won't go eying married men/women again. And if you're held tightly, uh…I hope you know what to do then .
   Now, if he/she loves you then you guys should sit down and talk to his/her husband/wife. If he/she is sensible enough, he/she will sign in the divorce papers and let her/him free. If not, buy a helmet!!
Good luck!